Dr Robert Lefever

New Blog

robert — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 08:18:39 +0000

My blog has now moved over to my website:

Dr Robert Lefever Blog

Contacting Doctor Lefever

robert — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 09:01:38 +0000

To contact Dr Robert Lefever :

info@drrobertlefever.co.uk

Alcohol/Drug/Eating Disorders Addiction Treatment Website

07540 281 820

Post-traumatic Stress

robert — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 09:01:00 +0000

Her brother died thirty years ago. She still grieves – which is understandable – but she also thinks badly of herself, believing that the wrong person died.
I did a session of EMDR with her and she now thinks about herself with greater understanding.

Out On My Feet

robert — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 09:00:31 +0000

I worked very hard today and there is only one way to describe it. I like this feeling.

Moving Home

robert — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 09:00:12 +0000

There are still piles of things on the floor of my new flat. I never realised that moving could take so long but I’m as busy as ever and living it. The chaos can continue for a bit without me feeling too guilty about it.

Criticism

robert — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 08:59:41 +0000

I had intended it to be a helpful – and even supportive – observation. That was not how it was perceived.

The Sponsor/Sponsee

robert — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 08:59:22 +0000

I wonder why it is that I am a more diligent sponsor than sponsee. Maybe I think I know everything.

Sorrow

robert — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 12:12:42 +0000

There are so many words to describe what I feel about the loss of my wife. Despair and depression aren’t right because they focus too much on me. Similarly, anger and resentment miss the spot because they are, to my mind, self-indulgent. Grief and melancholy are too medical, lonely is too practical, grateful and hopeful are too religious or weird. Sorrow says something that I believe she and I can share, each of us feeling it for the other person and for ourself.

The Headache

robert — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 12:12:26 +0000

I wonder what it was that she didn’t want to think about today.

Dying

robert — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 12:12:05 +0000

He is definitely on his way now. He can’t come back from the level of physical destruction that he has reached. Yet his spirit is still strong. What a wonderful man.