The Intervention
Wednesday, August 26th, 2009He did not want to see me. Prospective new patients usually do not want to see me: they perceive – quite correctly – that I shall get between them and their alcohol or drugs or food or whatever. They are usually dragged in to see me. It is then entirely up to me to gain their confidence so that they want to come back.
I don’t believe that addicts have to hit “rock bottom”, losing everything before considering changing their behaviour. Some of them die before that happens. Nor do I believe that one can frighten addicts into recovery: the fear generates further cravings. My job is to try to inspire addicts towards becoming the happiest and most fulfilled people they can be. I can do that only by being happy and fulfilled myself.